Common Sexual Problems

Sexual functioning is effected by many influences, and that unfortunately means…


Failure to Rise: When an Erection Disappoints

In that awful moment, he is flooded with dread.  Instead of being capable of…


Trauma: Never Quite the Same Again

In a split second an unexpected event triggers a cascade of terrible feelings;…


Let the Games Begin: Games of Courtship

LET THE GAMES BEGIN...the games of courtship In the beginning of a new romantic…


Being Single is an Opportunity

BEING SINGLE IS AN OPPORTUNITY...treat it as one. 1.  It may not initially…


Fair Fighting Makes Togetherness Safe

  If it weren’t for marriage men and women would fight with total…


The Blind Spot

As the evening had been growing long, the gathering was winding down.  Some…


Low Female Sexual Desire

Many women complain of having little sexual desire. Such women tend to feel bad…


For the Love of the Female Body

For heterosexual men, women’s bodies are the source of fascination and erotic…


Tiny But Mighty: The Clitoris

Far down through the dense and deep forest thicket, into the canyon cleft,…


Anatomically Different...Intimately

In the most essential sexual act, men and women are unequal and different.…


Delayed Take Off: Inhibited Ejaculation

The plane sat still on the tarmac. Inside the passengers waited restlessly for…


The Avoidant Partner

Some people avoid intimacy.  Strangely, these people still form intimate…


Battling Bedroom Boredom

McDonald’s built an empire by cooking the exact same burger billions of times.…


The Two Sides of Sexual Anxiety

   Of the many obstacles couples face while creating a fulfilling and…


The Quiet Man Who Shares Little

Who is that quiet mystery man?  He barely says a word.  His icy silence offers…


Emotional Safety

Marriage is a wonderful institution.  But who would want to live in an…


Did You Mean Intimacy or Sex?

It is held as a good value.  When it is missing, romantic partners complain of…


Curing the Sexless Marriage

Too many couples watch as days, weeks, months and years pass without having…


The Dangerous Allure of Perfection

There is no crime in wanting a good life or good love life. It is normal to…


The People Pleasers

They are among the most good-hearted people. They routinely go out of their way…


Eroticism: What Turns us On?

   Deep within the recesses of who we know ourselves to be, unresolved…


Erotic Material, Also Known as Porn

The issue of porn represents a divisive issue to many couples.  This problem is…