Depression: When We Disappear

Depression steals a person’s energy, interest and life.  It is common. Most…


Anxiety Disorders

Anxiety is a fear-based emotion that ranges in intensity from mild to severe.…


Failure to Rise: When an Erection Disappoints

In that awful moment, he is flooded with dread.  Instead of being capable of…


Trauma: Never Quite the Same Again

In a split second an unexpected event triggers a cascade of terrible feelings;…


Being Single is an Opportunity

BEING SINGLE IS AN OPPORTUNITY...treat it as one. 1.  It may not initially…


The Blind Spot

As the evening had been growing long, the gathering was winding down.  Some…


For the Love of the Female Body

For heterosexual men, women’s bodies are the source of fascination and erotic…


Delayed Take Off: Inhibited Ejaculation

The plane sat still on the tarmac. Inside the passengers waited restlessly for…


The Avoidant Partner

Some people avoid intimacy.  Strangely, these people still form intimate…


The Two Sides of Sexual Anxiety

   Of the many obstacles couples face while creating a fulfilling and…


The Quiet Man Who Shares Little

Who is that quiet mystery man?  He barely says a word.  His icy silence offers…


Emotional Safety

Marriage is a wonderful institution.  But who would want to live in an…


The Dangerous Allure of Perfection

There is no crime in wanting a good life or good love life. It is normal to…


The People Pleasers

They are among the most good-hearted people. They routinely go out of their way…


Bringing the Fight to Fear

Fear is a potent adversary. The fear that we will be harmed is common. Fear…


The Cheating Heart

     As long as there are other men and women, some spouses will stray.…


Discrepancy of Sexual Desire

When One of You Wants Sex More Than the Other We are all different.  This…


Sexual Desire and Men

Women often bemoan their burden of monthly menstrual cycles, pregnancy, of the…


No Time Like the Present

The past is riddled with hurtful events.  The pain from any event is only fully…


Pipeline to Pleasure

Our bodies are made, so that if healthy, sex will be pleasurable.  For those…


Me, Among Those I Love

A relationship is only as strong as the level at which the partners love…


Coping With the Porn Factor

The issue of porn represents a divisive challenge to many couples.  This…


Porn Pros and Cons

Pornography is not just negative.  Just like with guns, it's how they're used…