Failure to Rise: When an Erection Disappoints

In that awful moment, he is flooded with dread.  Instead of being capable of…


Being Single is an Opportunity

BEING SINGLE IS AN OPPORTUNITY...treat it as one. 1.  It may not initially…


The Blind Spot

As the evening had been growing long, the gathering was winding down.  Some…


For the Love of the Female Body

For heterosexual men, women’s bodies are the source of fascination and erotic…


The Avoidant Partner

Some people avoid intimacy.  Strangely, these people still form intimate…


Emotional Safety

Marriage is a wonderful institution.  But who would want to live in an…


The Dangerous Allure of Perfection

There is no crime in wanting a good life or good love life. It is normal to…


The People Pleasers

They are among the most good-hearted people. They routinely go out of their way…


Bringing the Fight to Fear

Fear is a potent adversary. The fear that we will be harmed is common. Fear…


Sexual Desire and Men

Women often bemoan their burden of monthly menstrual cycles, pregnancy, of the…


No Time Like the Present

The past is riddled with hurtful events.  The pain from any event is only fully…


Me, Among Those I Love

A relationship is only as strong as the level at which the partners love…


Love is Perfect

Love is perfect and we are not.  Our humaneness is at the center of our…


Gridlock: It's Knot Love

Romantic couples have a bad habit of getting tied up in knots. Each partner…


Here Comes the Judge

Keeping a romantic bond close and positive is hard. With the rigors of daily…


The Effects of Jealousy: Poisoned Love

Jealousy poisons many relationships while searching for love's closeness.  It…