Loving Our Partner, A Spiritual Discipline

A majority of people join with another to form a love relationship. Coupling up…


Better Loving Through Chemistry

The couple reminisced about the moment their eyes first met.  There was a…


The 36 Questions That Lead to Love

The 36 Questions That Lead to Love By Daniel Jones Jan. 9, 2015 Published in…


Let the Games Begin: Games of Courtship

LET THE GAMES BEGIN...the games of courtship In the beginning of a new romantic…


Fair Fighting Makes Togetherness Safe

  If it weren’t for marriage men and women would fight with total…


The Blind Spot

As the evening had been growing long, the gathering was winding down.  Some…


Anatomically Different...Intimately

In the most essential sexual act, men and women are unequal and different.…


Delayed Take Off: Inhibited Ejaculation

The plane sat still on the tarmac. Inside the passengers waited restlessly for…


The Avoidant Partner

Some people avoid intimacy.  Strangely, these people still form intimate…


The Quiet Man Who Shares Little

Who is that quiet mystery man?  He barely says a word.  His icy silence offers…


Emotional Safety

Marriage is a wonderful institution.  But who would want to live in an…


Did You Mean Intimacy or Sex?

It is held as a good value.  When it is missing, romantic partners complain of…


Curing the Sexless Marriage

Too many couples watch as days, weeks, months and years pass without having…


The Dangerous Allure of Perfection

There is no crime in wanting a good life or good love life. It is normal to…


Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying

Published: New York Times December 17, 2006 (Added to by Andrew Aaron, LICSW)…


Anatomy of Commitment

When lost in a delicious fog of love, many lovers propose the commitment of…


Battling Desire Discrepancy

 In terms of time allotment, sex is not a huge part of how a couple spends…


Bringing the Fight to Fear

Fear is a potent adversary. The fear that we will be harmed is common. Fear…


The Cheating Heart

     As long as there are other men and women, some spouses will stray.…


Love in Later Life

What is it about sex that it spawns so many myths and misconceptions?  Among…


Discrepancy of Sexual Desire

When One of You Wants Sex More Than the Other We are all different.  This…


Making Love Throughout the Day

    In our quest to create for ourselves the kind of love that is deep and…


Openness to Influence

Imagine if you need changes from your spouse or partner, such as spending more…