No Time Like the Present

The past is riddled with hurtful events.  The pain from any event is only fully…


Me, Among Those I Love

A relationship is only as strong as the level at which the partners love…


Coping With the Porn Factor

The issue of porn represents a divisive challenge to many couples.  This…


Porn Pros and Cons

Pornography is not just negative.  Just like with guns, it's how they're used…


Nasty Affair: Cheating Prevention

What happens when a person gets under the sheets with someone other than his or…


Love is Perfect

Love is perfect and we are not.  Our humaneness is at the center of our…


Gridlock: It's Knot Love

Romantic couples have a bad habit of getting tied up in knots. Each partner…


Viagra: Politics of the Little Blue Pill

With the introduction of Viagra in the late 90’s, many men who could not…


Why Do We Marry?

Why do we marry? It is a crazy thing to do. Talk to most married people and you…


Here Comes the Judge

Keeping a romantic bond close and positive is hard. With the rigors of daily…


Religion and Sex

When you and your honey climb into bed with the intention of snuggling and…


The Effects of Jealousy: Poisoned Love

Jealousy poisons many relationships while searching for love's closeness.  It…


The Queen and the King

Upon checking into a five-star hotel, guests are quick to notice the royal…


Conflict Need Not Damage Love

     The wife's face twisted in pain.  Not knowing the situation, one would…


Enticing Love to Stay

Falling in love is easy, but staying in love isn't.  A life without sharing…


Honesty Between Us

"Honesty is the best policy" is a phrase repeated for generations. Yet in our…


When Love is Given to Another

Affairs and cheating have eternally been a dark feature of the romantic…


Damage, Pain and Healing

There exist many challenges to the bond of love between partners, such as…


Couples Therapy

In relationship therapy, also called marriage counseling by many, couples seek…


Relationship Turn Signals

The way many people drive suggests that the use of turn signals is optional.…


Communication: More Than Just Talk

     Time and again couples enter relationship therapy (marriage counseling to…


Offer Understanding Not Advice

There are many different ways to love.  While all of them have value, each has…