Tiny But Mighty: The Clitoris

Far down through the dense and deep forest thicket, into the canyon cleft,…


Battling Bedroom Boredom

McDonald’s built an empire by cooking the exact same burger billions of times.…


Emotional Safety

Marriage is a wonderful institution.  But who would want to live in an…


Did You Mean Intimacy or Sex?

It is held as a good value.  When it is missing, romantic partners complain of…


Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying

Published: New York Times December 17, 2006 (Added to by Andrew Aaron, LICSW)…


Anatomy of Commitment

When lost in a delicious fog of love, many lovers propose the commitment of…


No Time Like the Present

The past is riddled with hurtful events.  The pain from any event is only fully…


Nasty Affair: Cheating Prevention

What happens when a person gets under the sheets with someone other than his or…


Love is Perfect

Love is perfect and we are not.  Our humaneness is at the center of our…


Gridlock: It's Knot Love

Romantic couples have a bad habit of getting tied up in knots. Each partner…


Viagra: Politics of the Little Blue Pill

With the introduction of Viagra in the late 90’s, many men who could not…


Why Do We Marry?

Why do we marry? It is a crazy thing to do. Talk to most married people and you…


The Queen and the King

Upon checking into a five-star hotel, guests are quick to notice the royal…


The Body of Love

Talked about, joked about, the source of fascination and unease physical…


The Place of Sex in Our Lives

Sex, like no other part our humanity, stirs our curiosity, fascination and…


Enticing Love to Stay

Falling in love is easy, but staying in love isn't.  A life without sharing…